What is a Personal Stylist & how can I help you?
I have a few different ways that I describe what I do. If you have seen Queer eye, I am Tan from Queer eye (if you haven’t seen it, its PERFECT feel good watching on Netflix)
I also refer to Trinny and Susannah (but a less boob grabbing version without the terrifying mirror) and of course, the one and only, Gok Wan.
More recently, I have been using the BBC documentary ‘You are what you wear’ as an example too (also excellent easy viewing)
But the most important thing to understand about what I do and believe in, is that I want to help you transform and grow in confidence with ALL my heart. I put every ounce of energy I have, cover all possibilities and options for you, have so much empathy I feel your pain, I listen and remember everything you say and have crazy intuition like no other. Its an absolute honour to build and gain your trust and I guard it and protect it with my soul. Clients are not ‘clients’ they become part of me and a friend and I grow with you. It’s a two-way street that requires total honesty and trust from both sides. It’s terrifying but amazing (for both) but I’ll never let you down.
Its not frivolous or vain to have a session with me, it’s about personal growth and discovery as well as communication to others – you are letting the world know who you and how you feel before you say a single word. It’s a powerful tool that you can use every day for the rest of your life. How you feel on the inside can be instantly lifted with the clothes and colours you choose to wear, and feels so motivating and inspiring.
No two clients of mine are the same. Even if they have the same body shape and complexion, I understand that we all have different personal taste, personalities, heights, budgets, backgrounds, and how you may want to convey yourself to the world. Its also important to know that I leave my taste at the door and focus on what is best for you and only you.
When people tend to find out what a Personal Stylist is, they nod and go ‘oooooooooh that’s so cool’ and then tend to look a bit terrified and start to say things like ‘Id be your nightmare client’ or ‘I’m too far gone for that’ or ‘ There’s not enough hours in the day to help me’ or ‘I wouldn’t know where to start’ or ‘I wish I could afford that’ or even ‘Id love that when I lose weight/get a new job/go to a wedding’ or ‘I can’t be bothered to even think about it’ or ‘I don’t deserve it’ etc and it LITERALLY BREAKS MY HEART.
I am a Personal Stylist because I want to help you re-connect with who you are on the inside so that you can confidently present that to the outside world. I want to make a difference to your life. We are not taught about our bodies, how to dress or use colour or to understand what suites us. We just see beautiful glossy images of models and get upset that the clothes don’t look the same on us. Style starts within, once you have reconnected with who you are, it’s time to discover what suits you and even more importantly understanding why it does. Once you know this, there are so many options for you to explore.
Its SO MUCH MORE than teaching you about hues that suit you and reflect your personality as well as clothes that suit your shape. It opens your eyes to a whole new way of dressing, using print, changing or creating proportion and style that saves you loads of time and money and believe it or not, can actually be FUN.
How can I help you?!
If your wardrobe mirrors your Tupperware draw in your kitchen (dangerous zone, falling out all over the place), I can help you organize and edit your wardrobe! If you walk into a shop and just immediately want to leave, I can help you by teaching you how to shop – what to look out for, where and why. If you have a fear of the changing rooms, I can help you by showing you your body shape and what works for you. If you are stuck in a style rut, I can introduce you to new styles, brands and colours. If your body has changed shape, I can teach you how to update and elevate your look. If you have an event and don’t know what to wear, I can help you get the perfect outfit. I also offer concierge services and can borrow 10 items from Harvey Nics and bring them to you to try if you are super short on time. High street to high end – nothing is off limits. Style has no age or size. If you want to treat a loved one to something special – I have gift vouchers!
To get the most from my services, they are best face to face however, I offer all virtually too (with huge success), so perfect if you are outside of London or the UK, don’t have as much time or feel ready to hit the shops yet or don’t want a strange stylist in your home!
I’d love to offer you a complimentary 30 min style session where you can ask me everything and anything style related. We can also talk about a personalised style journey that’s bespoke to you and that fits your budget.
If you haven’t downloaded my free body-shape E-book, please do by clicking this link.
I also have gift vouchers available, so if you’d like one as a gift or to give as a gift, we can arrange that too.
Big love and stylish wishes,
Sian xxx
PS: I am a Personal Stylist based in London and the surrounding areas but will happily travel further if required.